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BE THE CHANGE BLOG
Hey there, trendsetters of transformation and champions of change! Are you ready to embark on an exhilarating journey through the kaleidoscope of LGBTQIA+ experiences? Brace yourself for riveting stories, empowering insights, and a vibrant community that celebrates the kaleidoscope of love, identity, and everything that makes us beautifully unique.
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Can My Boss Ask That?" - Your Rights Around Gender, Sexuality, and Transition at Work for LGBTQIA+ employees (Be The Transformational Change)
The short answer is: usually, no. Your employer does not have the right to pry into your sexual orientation, gender identity, or medical history just because they're curious or uncomfortable. But knowing where the lines are, and what to do when someone crosses them, makes a real difference. Here's what you need to know. Can my employer legally ask about my sexual orientation or gender identity? Generally, no. In the United States, the Supreme Court's 2020 ruling in Bostock v
Morgan Messick
Mar 12


How Do I Come Out to My Partner as Trans or Non-Binary?
Coming out to a partner is one of the most vulnerable conversations a person can have.
Morgan Messick
Mar 2


How do I Date as a Transgender or Non-Binary Person?
How Do I Date as a Transgender or Non-Binary Person? Dating as a trans or non-binary person comes down to the same things it does for everyone: real attraction, mutual respect, and genuine compatibility. The difference is that you also get to prioritize people and spaces that truly see and honor who you are. You decide when and whether to share personal details, and you don't owe anyone a lesson on your identity just because they're interested in you. The standard is simple:
Guest Contributor
Feb 19


What does it mean to be Aromantic?
Visibility starts with understanding. 💚 Today we’re breaking down what it means to be aromantic—and why representation matters.
Morgan Messick
Feb 8


Starting Fresh in 2026: 5 Ways to Build a Life You Love LGBTQ I Be The Transformational Change
Let's face it, 2025 was rough for the LGBTQIA+ community. Here are some tips on building the life that you love.
Morgan Messick
Jan 29


How to Set (And Keep) Healthy Relationship Boundaries” I Be the Transformational Change
Boundaries are a mental health tool - one of the most powerful ones you have - and they're essential for showing up authentically in your relationships and your life.
So why do so many of us struggle with them?
Morgan Messick
Jan 14


Sleigh the Holidays: A Queer persons guide to handling uncomfortable conversations
The holidays are supposed to be about warmth, connection, and joy. But if you're LGBTQIA+, you know they can also mean bracing yourself for invasive questions, comments that sting, and conversations that leave you exhausted before dessert even hits the table.
Morgan Messick
Dec 16, 2025


Chosen Family: Why it matters and how to build one.
The holiday season can bring up complicated feelings about family. While some people look forward to gathering around the table with their relatives, others find themselves navigating strained relationships, feeling out of place, or wondering where they truly belong.
If this resonates with you, please know that you are never alone. The love, support, and connection that family is supposed to provide can be found elsewhere:
Morgan Messick
Dec 12, 2025


The Grief That Doesn't Go Away: Living with Rejection After Coming Out
Living with Rejection after coming out.
Morgan Messick
Dec 8, 2025


“What Does It Mean To Be Non-Binary? Your Questions Answered.” I Be The Transformational
What does it mean to be Non-Binary Gender isn’t always as simple as “man” or “woman.” Some people identify with aspects of both, some don’t fit either category, and some experience their gender in ways that shift over time. These identities exist outside the traditional gender binary, and the term non-binary is used to describe them. Now that we’ve set the stage, let’s dive into what non-binary means, how it connects to other gender identities, and some practical ways you c
Morgan Messick
Nov 12, 2025


Gender 101: How to Talk About Identity Respectfully (Without Overthinking It)” I Be The Transformational Change
Imagine you’re in a coffee shop and someone introduces themselves using “they/them” pronouns. You want to be respectful - but suddenly, your brain freezes. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone.
Morgan Messick
Oct 14, 2025


Closeted and thinking about coming out?
If you're reading this, chances are you're carrying something heavy. Maybe it’s a secret that feels too big to hold - the truth of who...
Morgan Messick
Oct 3, 2025


LGBTQ+ Healthcare Discrimination: A Life-or-Death Public Health Crisis I Be the Transformational Change
Learn How to Access Gender-Affirming Care in a Hostile State About Mutual Aid Fighting for LGBTQ+ Rights in Your State Imagine this for...
Morgan Messick
Sep 23, 2025


How to Access Gender-Affirming Care in a Non-Supportive State I Be the Transformational Change
A guide to accessing gender affirming care in hostile environments. If you're transgender or non-binary and living in a state where...
Morgan Messick
Aug 25, 2025


Mutual Aid: What this is, Why it Matters, and How to Get Involved"
In the face of deepening inequality, mutual aid is more than a buzzword - it’s a lifeline. Mutual Aid is a way for us to help each other...
Morgan Messick
Jul 29, 2025


Finding Home Again: A Relocation Guide for Transgender Individuals in 2025” I Be the Transformational Change
Across the U.S., an increasing number of trans folks are being forced to choose between staying in communities that feel unsafe or...
Morgan Messick
Jul 16, 2025


Why Pride Month Matters so Much in 2025. Be The Transformational Change
Every June, rainbow flags rise high and streets come alive as millions in the LGBTQ+ community (and those who stand beside them) gather...
Morgan Messick
Jun 11, 2025


“Fighting For LGBTQ+ Rights In Your State: A Practical Advocacy Guide” - Be the Transformational Change
Some of the most powerful laws affecting LGBTQ+ lives aren’t made in D.C. - they’re made in your state capitol. From access to gender-affirming care to protections in schools and workplaces, state LGBTQ laws impact daily life in real and urgent ways.
Morgan Messick
May 30, 2025


Addressing Challenges Faced by LGBT Entrepreneurs in Business
In today's vibrant and ever-evolving business landscape, diversity and inclusion have become essential ingredients for success. However,...
Guest Contributor
May 6, 2025


Why LGBTQIA+ Rights should matter to everyone.
LGBTQIA+ rights are human rights. There is no distinction, no debate, and no justification for stripping away the fundamental freedoms of...
Morgan Messick
Mar 24, 2025
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