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Hey there, trendsetters of transformation and champions of change! Are you ready to embark on an exhilarating journey through the kaleidoscope of LGBTQIA+ experiences? Brace yourself for riveting stories, empowering insights, and a vibrant community that celebrates the kaleidoscope of love, identity, and everything that makes us beautifully unique.
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Sleigh the Holidays: A Queer persons guide to handling uncomfortable conversations
The holidays are supposed to be about warmth, connection, and joy. But if you're LGBTQIA+, you know they can also mean bracing yourself for invasive questions, comments that sting, and conversations that leave you exhausted before dessert even hits the table.
Morgan Messick
11 hours ago


Chosen Family: Why it matters and how to build one.
The holiday season can bring up complicated feelings about family. While some people look forward to gathering around the table with their relatives, others find themselves navigating strained relationships, feeling out of place, or wondering where they truly belong.
If this resonates with you, please know that you are never alone. The love, support, and connection that family is supposed to provide can be found elsewhere:
Morgan Messick
4 days ago


The Grief That Doesn't Go Away: Living with Rejection After Coming Out
Living with Rejection after coming out.
Morgan Messick
Dec 8


“What Does It Mean To Be Non-Binary? Your Questions Answered.” I Be The Transformational
What does it mean to be Non-Binary Gender isn’t always as simple as “man” or “woman.” Some people identify with aspects of both, some don’t fit either category, and some experience their gender in ways that shift over time. These identities exist outside the traditional gender binary, and the term non-binary is used to describe them. Now that we’ve set the stage, let’s dive into what non-binary means, how it connects to other gender identities, and some practical ways you c
Morgan Messick
Nov 12


Gender 101: How to Talk About Identity Respectfully (Without Overthinking It)” I Be The Transformational Change
Imagine you’re in a coffee shop and someone introduces themselves using “they/them” pronouns. You want to be respectful - but suddenly, your brain freezes. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone.
Morgan Messick
Oct 14


Closeted and thinking about coming out?
If you're reading this, chances are you're carrying something heavy. Maybe it’s a secret that feels too big to hold - the truth of who...
Morgan Messick
Oct 3


LGBTQ+ Healthcare Discrimination: A Life-or-Death Public Health Crisis I Be the Transformational Change
Learn How to Access Gender-Affirming Care in a Hostile State About Mutual Aid Fighting for LGBTQ+ Rights in Your State Imagine this for...
Morgan Messick
Sep 23


How to Access Gender-Affirming Care in a Non-Supportive State I Be the Transformational Change
A guide to accessing gender affirming care in hostile environments. If you're transgender or non-binary and living in a state where...
Morgan Messick
Aug 25


Mutual Aid: What this is, Why it Matters, and How to Get Involved"
In the face of deepening inequality, mutual aid is more than a buzzword - it’s a lifeline. Mutual Aid is a way for us to help each other...
Morgan Messick
Jul 29


Finding Home Again: A Relocation Guide for Transgender Individuals in 2025” I Be the Transformational Change
Across the U.S., an increasing number of trans folks are being forced to choose between staying in communities that feel unsafe or...
Morgan Messick
Jul 16


Why Pride Month Matters so Much in 2025. Be The Transformational Change
Every June, rainbow flags rise high and streets come alive as millions in the LGBTQ+ community (and those who stand beside them) gather...
Morgan Messick
Jun 11


“Fighting For LGBTQ+ Rights In Your State: A Practical Advocacy Guide” - Be the Transformational Change
Some of the most powerful laws affecting LGBTQ+ lives aren’t made in D.C. - they’re made in your state capitol. From access to gender-affirming care to protections in schools and workplaces, state LGBTQ laws impact daily life in real and urgent ways.
Morgan Messick
May 30


Addressing Challenges Faced by LGBT Entrepreneurs in Business
In today's vibrant and ever-evolving business landscape, diversity and inclusion have become essential ingredients for success. However,...
Guest Contributor
May 6


Why LGBTQIA+ Rights should matter to everyone.
LGBTQIA+ rights are human rights. There is no distinction, no debate, and no justification for stripping away the fundamental freedoms of...
Morgan Messick
Mar 24


Navigating Anti-Trans Policies in America: A Self-Care Guide to Staying Alive
Stay safe, strong, and resilient amid anti-trans policies. Find resources, self-care tips, and support in this essential guide.
Morgan Messick
Feb 3


Why Pronouns Matter (And How To Get Them Right)
Language shapes our reality. The words we choose have the power to uplift, connect, and affirm - or alienate and harm.
Morgan Messick
Jan 6


“The LGBTQIA+ Holiday Survival Guide: Navigating Family and Finding Peace”
Some tips on navigating Family and finding holiday peace The holiday season is often painted as a time of togetherness, warmth, and...
Morgan Messick
Dec 15, 2024


“A Seat at the Table: Recognizing LGBTQIA+ Leaders in Politics” I Be the Transformational Change
The holidays can be a beautiful time with loved ones: twinkling Christmas lights, comfort food, and a whirlwind of family chatter… but...
Morgan Messick
Dec 7, 2024


How to handle rejection when coming out.
Coming out is brave - it’s about sharing a piece of who you are, hoping the people you care about will see and accept you. But sometimes,...
Morgan Messick
Dec 3, 2024


Gender Identity vs. Gender Expression: What's the Difference.
Gender isn’t one-size-fits-all - it’s a blend of who we know ourselves to be inside and how we decide to express that to the world on the...
Morgan Messick
Dec 2, 2024
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